the end.

Post secret is a great little site that has gotten a little bit of following lately, including myself. Basically, people just send in their secret on some type of postcard or art and it gets put up on the site. Every Sunday new secrets are posted. Most of the time I can't relate to most of the secrets, because they are personal, but two of last weeks were alarmingly relevant in my life with a current relationship I was involved in.

Anyway, the breakup happened on Saturday night. And these two post secrets can pretty much sum up what happened quite nicely. Except there was only one girl that screwed him up. His ex girlfriend that he dated for three years. They have been broken up for about a year and a half and she still has a huge hold on him in a way that I can't even imagine.

And that wasn't even the huge issue. The huge issue was that he was being very distant as of late and I needed to talk to him about it, which is good, right? In relationships you need to address something if its bothering you. You can fight it out, or just agree to fix it. Luke just thought it would be easier to break up because he "wasn't being fair to me". Naturally I tried to change his mind, but soon realized that wasn't going to happen and this needed to be finished.

The sad thing is that we would still be dating if I would have kept my mouth shut.

But why should I have to keep my mouth shut? I'm glad I spoke up, and instead of being sad and upset because I liked him, I'm madder than hell. Especially yesterday when he owed me 30 dollars and had my chess board. I had to go to his house and get them. I was so bitchy. And he deserves it.

"Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together." ~Author Unknown

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This is a new beginning, dammit!